BANDS THAT BIND

By itself naught but an elegant band
Oft consisting of silver, gold or platinum
Displayed in a showcase of similar ware
Waiting to be suitably selected by one who cares
To be used most solemnly at an appropriate time
Usually on the fourth finger of the left hand
As a respected symbol of a permanent bond.

This then accomplished
The band thus placed
Miraculously takes on a mystique of its own
Reflecting the cumulative experiences of a lifetime
Of the one unique person
On whose finger it has been placed.

Each band thus
Singularly different in its own way
Represents the ups and downs
The highs and lows
The good and bad
The vagaries and variances of life
Each its own special story to tell
From time immemorial
Throughout the world
One can find no duplicate.

To you on whose finger
the band that bonds
has been so bestowed
Look upon it carefully once again
Thoughtfully reminisce its origin
Recall its precise moment of happiness
Rejuvenate your state of mind
Remember the purpose and commitment
Rededicate yourself to the original cause
Of that band on the fourth finger of your left hand.

Herbert Holzbauer
© January 2001